Standing For Her
By Mickey Bennett
Sieracki
Mary Catherine Connor sadly stood at attention, watching the
Japanese flag slowly rise to the top of the flagpole in front of the American
High Commissioner’s Office in Manila .
It was early January 1942, and her peaceful life had turned into a nightmare
that wouldn’t end for three long years. Just that past September she had
finished a business school course and had started work as a stenographer in the
High Commissioner’s Office. She was busy with her new career and enjoying life
in Manila with
family and friends. But all that changed on December 7th.
A family friend had been listening to his radio and rushed
over to the Connor home to tell them of an attack on Pearl
Harbor . Disbelief and shock were soon followed by grim reality the
next day as the Japanese bombed Clark Air Force base, north of Manila , and hit the oil reserves in the Pasig depots. Black
clouds hid the sky and the family knew the way of life they had known was
coming to an end. The next few weeks passed in a blur of news reports and
radio, until finally the shocking news that General MacArthur was leaving. On
December 26th he declared Manila
an open city. The hope was to spare the city and its residents from total
devastation, but the bombing continued for the next few days.[1]
As people considered what the coming of the Japanese would
mean, there were those who reflected at the horror that had occurred just 4
years previously in Nanking . Mary’s family had
all read of the atrocities committed against the civilian residents of Nanking , the rapes, murders and torture of men, women and
children by the Japanese troops.[2]
Mary’s mother, looking at her three teenaged daughters could not bear the
thought of what might happen to them. The High Commissioner’s office had
confirmed there would be no evacuations of American civilians, so she
considered her options. Near their home was a small drugstore, the Botica
Batallones. A discreet phone call brought a delivery of 5 vials of cyanide.
They would not have to endure long if the fury of the Japanese was unleashed
again.[3]
But Mary and her sisters were young, and the blood of
Basque, Irish, and English adventurers and soldiers ran strong in their veins.
They would survive. Faced with this determination and courage, her mother began
new preparations. She began gathering supplies: sleeping mats, toilet paper, two
cans of oatmeal per person, one pack of prunes and sugar per individual, and
more. A shelter was set up under one side of the house. Pails of water were
filled for personal use and, if necessary, to put out fires. Then they waited.[4]
On January 2nd the Japanese marched into Manila in six man squads:
one carried a rifle, another rode a bicycle, another carried as much rice as
one man could. The others carried souvenirs from their march to the city.
Shortly thereafter, Mary Catherine and her fellow employees from the High
Commissioner’s office were ordered to report to the office. Civilians, in
general, and the rest of her family were advised to congregate in hotels and
clubs as it was believed there was safety in numbers. So, here she was,
watching the Japanese flag go up, not knowing what the future would hold,
separated from her family. At least she knew the American flag had not been
desecrated. Only the day before, Mr. Claude Buss and four others from the
Office had secretly burned the flag and buried it on the grounds.[5]
When the flag-raising ceremony was over, the staff was held
on the premises for about 36 hours, and then moved to a private home where they
were held for some months. It was a fairly large home and easily accommodated
most of the staff. Father Kelly from the nearby Malate Church
said Mass every Sunday for the Catholics in the group, and Bishop Binstead of
the Episcopalian Church held services for the
Protestants. He and his wife were also incarcerated in the house.[6] [7]
Almost immediately, Mary fell ill with acute appendicitis.
She was fortunate that early on, the staff prisoners were treated well. She was
sent to a local hospital and operated on. During her convalescence she heard of
the fall of Bataan , and within days a
terrified Mary watched from the hospital as the surviving American soldiers
were marched through Manila
to their destination in Cabanatuan .
One of the mud-splattered soldiers stumbling by the house was her Uncle
William, but she never knew it. The condition of the soldiers was so grim they
were unrecognizable.[8]
The weeks dragged by. Word got through sporadically to the
staff about events on the outside. Mary was able to get a letter through to her
brother in the U.S.
letting him know they were all safe, though she was separated from the rest of
the family. Her parents and sisters had been taken in early February to the University of Santo Tomas , which had been set up as a
huge internment camp. Santo Tomas was a large urban campus, easily secured,
with many buildings suitable for housing the thousands of civilian prisoners of
war. The university, founded in 1611, was one of the most revered landmarks in Manila .[9]
In late October the staff were given the choice of joining
the American consular group at another residence in Pasay City ,
or going into the Santo Tomas internment camp. Some, including Bishop Binstead,
ended up at the Los Baños camp outside of Manila .
The thought of being with her parents and sisters, and with a larger group of
people was comforting, and Mary quickly chose to join them. The joy she felt on
seeing her parents and sisters again was indescribable. Come what may, at least
they were together. At the beginning of the Occupation, the Santo Tomas camp
was organized by a committee of internees who made rules, kept order, and
assigned all internees to jobs. Mary worked as a stenographer initially, and
then went on to teach in the camp elementary school.[10] Mary,
along with others in the camp, tried very hard to maintain some sort of normal
routine for the hundreds of children in the camp. Adults gave up their own
rations to ensure the children got enough to eat.
When Mary first entered Santo Tomas, her father escorted her
through the camp showing her where everything was, stopping to greet old
acquaintances from pre-war days. As they were moving around the complex, they
came across a group of men chatting on the steps of one of the buildings. Her
father introduced her to one of them, a businessman he had known slightly
before the War. It was Henry Bennett, a Manila stockbroker. He would come to be
the most important person in Mary’s life.
Henry had come out to Manila
in 1935 with the U.S. Army and had decided to remain in Manila after his tour of duty was over. He
had fallen in love with the City, and saw more opportunities there than he
could ever hope for back in his hometown in Iowa. He tried several ventures and
finally had begun to see some success in his stockbrokerage business when the
war broke out. He was immediately called back to active duty. His uniforms
hadn’t been delivered yet when the City fell, and under the impression he was a
civilian, the Japanese assigned him to Santo Tomas along with the rest of the civilian
POW’s. It didn’t take long for these two
to realize they had met their life’s mate. Hours were spent talking about their
lives, their hopes, and their future. However, the grim reality was that they
weren’t sure they would have a future. Strict separation of the sexes was in
place in Santo Tomas. There were separate dorms for the men, and women. The
harshest of punishments were promised for women in camp who got pregnant.
Needless to say they certainly forbade all marriages. Henry and Mary desperately
wanted to get married.
Henry turned to one of his close friends in the camp, a
Dominican priest, who agreed to help the couple, even at the risk of severe
punishment. A secret wedding ceremony was held in 1943. Shortly after that the
Japanese finally agreed to marriages in camp. Henry and Mary went through the
formal process in order to allay any suspicions of the secret marriage, and on May 31, 19 44 a formal marriage
ceremony was held, the first in the camp.[11]
This couple, whose marriage was to last until Henry’s death in 1981, was
finally together as husband and wife. Perhaps their joy at finding each other
during the most traumatic time of their lives helped them survive during the
following year. As the tides of war began to turn against the Japanese, they
became increasingly hostile to the prisoners in Santo Tomas. They gradually cut
all the food rations, till eventually people had to survive on approximately
1000 calories of food or less a day.[12]
Disease became prevalent, and the death rate began to climb. Who can say what
might have happened if the war had not ended when it did? For several days in
January 1945 heavy bombing could be heard over Manila from American planes.
Finally in early February American planes flew over Santo Tomas and something fell
from one of the planes – the pilot’s goggles. Written on them – “Roll out the
barrel”. [13] [14]
Mary and her new husband were free at last – ready to begin
a new life. Their world for three years had been the confines of Santo Tomas.
They all suffered from a host of illnesses: beriberi, severe malnutrition,
fatigue, and anxiety. Henry had contracted tuberculosis as well as
hepatitis. Mary had gone from a healthy
140 lbs down to 90.[15] The
average loss of weight in the camp was 51 pounds for men and 32 pounds for
women.[16] Catching
up on three years worth of news began – some happy, much heartbreaking. Henry’s father had died during the internment
years; Mary’s beloved grandparents in New York had both died, not knowing what
had happened to their son’s family. Mary’s cousin Betty and her mother were
found dead outside their home in Manila, victims of the final bombing of
Manila. Next to their bodies was a dead Japanese soldier with a grenade
clutched in his hand. There were some happy surprises. Her brother had gotten
married in the States. Mary’s Uncle William appeared one day walking up to them
in Santo Tomas – he had just been released from a slave labor camp in Manchuria,
where he had been sent after surviving the Bataan Death March and the initial
camp at Cabanatuan. At first they did not recognize him. Everyone thought he
had died during the Death March along with his cousin. [17] [18]
The surviving internees and their civilian population had
stood the test of fire – and literally so. The great city of Manila was put to
the torch in the course of its liberation by the American forces. As the
Japanese retreated, they went on a killing rampage. Corpses floated in the
Pasig River and lay unburied in the rubble of the streets of the city. The
destruction was so complete streets could hardly be recognized. In churches and
chapels and in their own courtyards the dead lay stacked like cordwood. All
places of refuge became the halls and fields of death as the Japanese threw
grenades and burned buildings. In a swimming pool in one area there was no
longer water – it was filled with bodies. In an ironic and tragic note, as the
Japanese forces withdrew from places where their own wounded lay, their General
came and issued grenades to those soldiers who could not walk to ensure them a
merciful death, for the buildings were going to be fired.
In February 1945 Mary Connor Bennett again found herself
standing at attention in a courtyard. But this time it was to watch the
American flag raised. The courtyard was filled with a ragged mass of emaciated
people. All focused their eyes with tears streaming from them on the American
flag. The crowd’s voices lifted in a heartfelt rendition of “God Bless America ”.[19]
This time Mary and her fellow internees had a future to look forward to, hope
for a new life with her family, husband and friends. [20]
In January of 2008, Mary Connor Bennett sat in a wheelchair
in an assisted living facility in Roseville ,
MN listening to an afternoon
musical program. Her eyes were dimmed by age, her mind robbed of its brilliance
and memory by advancing Alzheimer’s. The program ended with “God Bless America ”. The
song brought back one of those rare flashes of memory and Mary struggled to
rise from her wheelchair. The staff rushed over, worrying that she would fall,
and assured her she could relax and sit down. But she continued to struggle to
stand. She looked at them and clearly said, “I will stand for this song till
the day I die.” A hush came over the group as one by one the other elderly residents
joined her and rose to their feet. [21]
On March
6, 2008 , Mary Connor Bennett took leave of her three daughters at
her bedside and joined her beloved husband forever. We stand for her now.[22]
The Battle of Manila (February 3, 1945 – March 3, 1945) was a major battle of the Philippine campaign of 1944-45 during World War II that was fought by the American and Filipino forces against the Empire of Japan in Manila, the capital city of the Philippines
[1]
Morton, Louis, The US Army in WWII, The War in the
Pacific, The Fall of the Philippines ,
Chapter XIV
[3] Personal
Recollections of Frances Connor O’Keefe as related to her niece, Mickey Bennett
Sieracki
[4] Personal
Recollections of Mary Catherine Bennett as related to her daughter, Mickey
Bennett Sieracki
[5] Dialogue, A
publication of the Thomas Jefferson Information Center (TJIC), Public Affairs
Section, U.S. Embassy, Manila, Volume 2, No. 2, April 2001
[7] Personal
Recollections of Mary Catherine Bennett as related to her daughter, Mickey
Bennett Sieracki
[8] Personal
Recollections of Mary Catherine Bennett as related to her daughter, Mickey
Bennett Sieracki
[10] The Liberation Bulletin of Philipine
Internment Camp No. I at Santo
Tomas University ,
Manila , Philippines , February 3, 1945
[12] The Liberation Bulletin of Philipine
Internment Camp No. I at Santo
Tomas University ,
Manila , Philippines , February 3, 1945
[13]
Ralph DioGuardi, Roll Out The Barrel…The Tanks
Are Coming: The Liberation of the Santo Tomas Internment Camp, A Merriam Press
Original Publication, Military Monograph MM20
[15] Letter
from Mary Catherine Bennett to her sister-in-law Thelma Bennett Grundl, 1945
[16] The Liberation Bulletin of Philipine
Internment Camp No. I at Santo
Tomas University ,
Manila , Philippines , February 3, 1945
[18] Doll,
John G., The Battling Bastards of Bataan ”, A
Merriam Press Original Publication, Military Monograph MM36
[20]
Interview with Mary Catherine Bennett by her daughter, Mickey Bennett Sieracki,
2000